Monday, December 15, 2008
relationship needs to be maintained
was consoling one of my friend yesterday night.. while i was trying to comfort her, it gets me thinking at the same time..
relationship is not a trophy. its not something that u fought for, won it, then shelf it.. it needs constant maintenance.. it needs to be constantly cared for.. constantly looked after..
both parties really need to put in the constant effort to fuel this relationship.. if only one side is doing this, it will never work out.. one should start off everyday by thinking how to make the other "fall in love" with u again.. don't take each other for granted.. never..
a small example.. sometimes my friends will ask me.. why are u still getting roses for your gf? roses are only for valentines day, and the period before u get together with your gf.. waste money now for what..
ha.. i feel that we should really treat our gal better after we got together with them.. because, after they become our gf.. they are now willing to stand by our side.. they are willing to share our pain, sorrow, happiness.. they are willing to play a part in our life.. we should really appreciate that..
a small tip.. no girl hates flowers.. even if they feel that its not practical, some may say its a waste of money.. deep inside.. they won't mind getting one.. studies show that.. girls prefer getting flowers in front of their friends.. YUP! do something to surprise your GF soon~ (of cos.. don't do it if the girl is not your gf and she made it clear that she don't want to complicate things.. that i can't be sure if she will be happy or not)
Posted by qi at 10:11 PM
